Saturday, July 17, 2010

Breaking Up Is Hard To Do...

It's late, and my mind wanders SO bad when it's late like this.

The thoughts bugging me at the moment are about my little (HA) brother Kyle.  

He is breaking up with his first serious girlfriend.

They've both known this day was coming... since they started dating in fact.  She's a foreign exchange student... A Vietnamese girl from Germany (Kyle calls her his GermAsian!)  So yes, their high school romance had an expiration date on it.  Most high school romances do, but few are so definite.

I think my mom said she's flying back home tomorrow morning.  A friend of Kyle's is driving him to the airport for him to say goodbye.  

I'm really wondering what Kyle's thinking and going through right now.  Kyle's a very laid back kinda guy (reminds me alot of Chris.) It's hard to see him as romantic... mainly cause he's my brother, but too because he's just not a MUSHY guy... Avery on the other hand... 

Back to Kyle... Because Kyle and his GermAsian aren't breaking up over the usual stupid high school stuff (I don't even remember why I ever broke up with a guy in high school... other than I was really just bored with him...)  I wonder if Kyle's heartbroken over this... 

I asked my mom about it and she said she really didn't know.  She said Kyle's girlfriend is torn up... Very Very upset.

Makes me remember how INTENSE and kinda silly (looking back on it) those first "loves" were.  Those crushes are such a high... 

Anyways - I'm kinda sad for Kyle right now.  My heart goes out to him.  I don't think he'll be crying over her or anything, but I'm sure he'll really miss her.  

I think I might have to make him something special tomorrow when we go visit... some cookies or a real good mix cd.  

All this thinking has made me SO SO SO SO SO SO SO glad I'm no longer a teenager and no longer in high school and no longer dating (cept Chris!)  :)  I'm very grateful for that!

1 comment:

  1. agreed. all that silly boy trouble and drama could be avoided if these dang young'uns would listen to us old folks! lol, except in the case of poor kyle. in his case i'm sure it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all. Actually, I'm sure that's the case for both of them. HOW could you forget a character like Kyle! Poor, poor girl.


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